Chapter 1: My First Encounter with Alcohol

During my teenage years, a friend offered me a taste of her whiskey and sprite mix in the school parking lot. I took the smallest sip imaginable and was immediately put off by its taste. That was my initial experience with alcohol.

By the age of twenty, I had tried half a white claw, starting a journey of moderate drinking. Now, at twenty-four, I remain steadfast in my choice not to get drunk, and my resolve only strengthens with time. The primary reason behind my decision is deeply rooted in my Christian beliefs.

In middle and high school, I viewed all drinking as sinful and swore off alcohol entirely. However, I later learned that the Bible does not categorically prohibit drinking.

Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NIV) states: "So, I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad."

Moreover, the Bible recounts the famous story of Jesus turning water into wine: "…and the master of the banquet tasted the water that had been turned into wine…" — John 2:9(b) NIV. Jesus also refers to wine as a representation of His blood: "This wine is my blood, which will be poured out to forgive the sins of many..." — Matthew 26:28 NIV.

Nevertheless, the scriptures caution against drunkenness: "Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise." — Proverbs 20:1 NIV. Drunkenness is even mentioned alongside other serious sins: "The acts of the flesh are obvious..." — Galatians 5:19–21 NIV.

We are also reminded to consider the struggles of others: "It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother or sister to fall." — Romans 14:21 NIV. The Bible often refers to those who drink excessively as foolish. The lack of self-control is unacceptable in my view.

Chapter 2: Personal Reasons for Abstinence

On a personal level, I simply don't enjoy the taste of alcohol, and the sugary drinks I might consider lead to other issues. If the alcohol doesn't make me feel ill, the sugar might.

Additionally, I suffer from emetophobia, a fear of vomiting. The potential for nausea associated with drinking is a definite deterrent for me. Hangovers also seem like a dreadful experience, and I often find myself relieved by my aversion to alcohol.

When my husband and I decided to start a family last July, I eliminated alcohol from my diet entirely. After my first miscarriage, I had a couple of drinks while on a trip, but overall, I've had only four drinks in the past year. I am now extremely cautious about what I consume, and alcohol simply isn't necessary.

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Chapter 3: Standing Firm Against Peer Pressure

My strong convictions make me immune to peer pressure regarding alcohol. When my husband and I attended a friend's birthday party, we were surrounded by alcohol and marijuana but chose to remain sober. We later agreed that such an environment was not for us and sought to avoid similar situations.

On a girls' beach trip, I was one of the few who didn't indulge in excessive drinking. I made my intentions clear, and the other women respected my decision.

I am unfazed by the normalization of drinking; others' choices do not influence mine.

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Chapter 4: Finding Joy Beyond Alcohol

The only "high" I seek comes from caffeine, which I also consume in moderation. A cup of coffee or tea serves as my special treat.

I made a conscious choice not to get drunk at a young age, and I have no intention of altering that stance. For me, drunkenness can distract from a Christ-centered life and misrepresents what it means to live as a Christian.

I refuse to ingest something that could harm my health; large quantities of alcohol are not beneficial to anyone. I find fulfillment in enjoying life without alcohol. My twenties are a time for vibrant experiences, and I am glad to embrace them soberly.

As I navigate life, I am confident that I am not missing out.

"Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour." — 1 Peter 5:8 NIV

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