Embracing Journaling: 7 Valuable Lessons from 1100 Days of Writing
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The Journey into Journaling
I've been engaged in journaling since my early teens, and even before that, if you consider the whimsical thoughts penned in my childhood Lisa Frank notebook. However, it wasn't until after college, when I impulsively moved to NYC to pursue a career in publishing, that I took it more seriously. Spoiler alert: my publishing ambitions didn't pan out, nor did my time in NYC. Yet, my enthusiasm for journaling remained, and for the past three years, I've diligently recorded at least one or two reflections daily, allowing me to look back and reminisce.
While the mental health benefits of journaling are well-established, I believe its advantages run even deeper. Journaling serves not only as a means of practicing gratitude and reflecting on daily experiences but also fosters self-trust and combats perfectionism when used consistently. Here are seven lessons I've gleaned from my journey in journaling, along with tips to help you cultivate your own journaling practice.
1. Release the Need for Perfection
As an overachiever, I've battled with perfectionism for much of my life. I once thought that a journal entry didn’t “count” unless it filled an entire page or more in a designated notebook. It seems absurd now. Where did I even derive that “rule” from, other than my own imagination? Remember, there are no strict guidelines to journaling. You can write a single sentence or several pages; your journal is yours to shape without limitations.
2. Embrace Various Tools
For a long time, I felt compelled to keep handwritten entries exclusively. However, as many busy individuals know, life can interrupt our best intentions. There will be times, whether due to travel, illness, or family visits, when carrying a journal becomes impractical. Instead, I learned to utilize the Notes app on my phone for those moments. Leverage every tool available—be it a notebook, phone, laptop, or even a napkin—to maintain your journaling habit.
3. Find Joy in the Process
Similar to advice given to aspiring early risers, having something to look forward to in the morning can motivate you to get out of bed. The same principle applies to journaling; when you make it enjoyable, you'll eagerly anticipate those moments you dedicate to writing. For me, it’s a fresh notebook and my favorite pen. For you, it might be enjoying a cup of tea or listening to a specially curated playlist while you write.
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4. Mornings for Creativity, Evenings for Reflection
If your goal is to unleash your creativity, journal in the mornings; if you prefer to reflect on the day's events, save it for the evening. For a long time, I wrote primarily at night, focusing on the day’s details. However, I decided to switch to morning journaling this year to better align with my creative aspirations. Depending on your schedule, choose the time that best fits your needs for journaling.
5. Allow Your Thoughts to Flow
Julia Cameron's concept of “morning pages” encourages writers to jot down three pages of free-flowing thoughts each morning. While this might feel overwhelming, adopting a simplified version can be beneficial. As you develop your journaling routine, let your mind wander. Start with one thought, and allow it to lead you down a path of new ideas and insights.
6. Reflect on Your Journey
One of the practical advantages of journaling is the opportunity for periodic reflection. At least once a year, revisit previous entries and consider how your life has evolved. Have you achieved your goals? Are they still relevant? With enough time invested, you'll see the changes in your life more clearly, as Bill Gates noted: “Most people overestimate what they can achieve in a year and underestimate what they can achieve in ten.”
7. Value Your Connection to the Past
Though my childhood journals may have vanished, I still possess every journal I've filled since middle school. Occasionally, I revisit these entries from five, ten, or even fifteen years ago, allowing memories to resurface. Even if you’re not sentimental, there will come a time when you'll appreciate having a record of your life’s journey. Consider the future version of yourself who will be grateful for these memories and the growth they represent.
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