Understanding Our Value

It never ceases to amaze me how easily we prioritize self-love, yet often place greater weight on others' opinions than on our own self-assessment.

"I’m constantly astounded by how readily we cherish ourselves more than anyone else, while simultaneously valuing the views of others over our own self-evaluation... We give so much importance to how others perceive us, and so little to our own judgments!" — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 12.4

When we lack clarity about our own beliefs, we become vulnerable to external influences. This is why it’s essential to invest time in understanding what we stand for and the reasons behind those beliefs. Recognizing what feels right for us—and why—is crucial.

Engaging in meaningful discussions with those who share or oppose our views can be enlightening. I relish exploring their reasoning and logic, which enriches my understanding. However, enjoying these exchanges doesn’t mean I abandon my convictions. What I hold as true remains valid for me unless I consciously decide to reconsider. I refuse to be swayed by mere opinions devoid of sound reasoning.

Moreover, I believe that differences in perspective shouldn't jeopardize friendships.

How much do you let others' opinions influence you? Do you compromise your beliefs just to keep the peace?

Explore this topic further by joining me in reading The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman.

The first video, "The Simple Trick to Stop Caring What People Think," delves into strategies for overcoming the fear of judgment from others, offering practical insights to foster self-acceptance.

In the second video, "Watch this if you can't stop caring what others think of you," viewers are encouraged to reflect on their self-worth and learn how to prioritize personal beliefs over societal pressures.