The Surprising Benefits of Self-Satisfaction Over Sex
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Chapter 1: Understanding Self-Satisfaction
Have you been single for some time and feeling down about it? There’s no need to turn this into a crisis! The pleasure you can achieve on your own can be quite fulfilling. Let’s delve into the reasons why self-satisfaction can be preferable to partnered sex and how to make the most of your situation.
Psychologist Ava Cadell, the author of "NeuroLoveology," along with sex coach Amy Levine, share insights into why self-stimulation is often undervalued compared to partnered sex:
Section 1.1: Freedom of Timing
When you have a partner, your sexual experiences can hinge on their availability—emotionally, spatially, and temporally. In contrast, with masturbation, you have complete autonomy over when you choose to engage in self-pleasure.
Section 1.2: Experimenting with Toys
While you can certainly explore various devices with a partner, this may require mutual openness. Solo, you can indulge in any toy without fear of